Many modern funeral rituals have their roots in ancient traditions. Whatever beliefs your loved one held, and even if they are different from the rest of the family's, a dignified send-off provides comfort within a sense of tradition for the living while honoring the departed.
Highly personalized memorials can take a variety of forms. For instance, various decorative elements may be displayed next to the casket or urn; some families add a video presentation, chamber music, prerecorded tributes or photographs; others may choose a casket with interchangeable corners; the service may be held in a special location or use vehicles or items (clothing, tools, etc.) that remind everyone of a representative aspect of the life or personality of the deceased.
Note that personalized funerals generally do not cost any more than traditional ones. It should also be pointed out that a personalized funeral is an approach initiated by the family. Berardinelli Family Funeral Services will respond as appropriately as possible to every request.
Including different items or symbols that were closely connected with the deceased is becoming common, although this custom dates back to Antiquity; indeed, many ancient tombs have been found to contain familiar objects that were meant to accompany the deceased on his or her journey to the afterlife.
The deceased person remains the main focus
It is advisable, nevertheless, that this practice be kept within the limits of good taste, dignity and respect. Keep in mind that the funeral should be personalized around the most important person in the family’s eyes and, that this type of expression is first and foremost for the deceased. The families have to realize that this reminder of the deceased, that the number of objects or the size of the display, for example, cannot by themselves express the true depth of their love for the person.
Whatever you choose, our professional staff can advise you and hlep plan a personalized funeral to meet your needs and expectations for a heartfelt tribute that is dignified.
